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Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Documenting the Excuses

So by now a lot of people have seen the following spreadsheet on the Internet:

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It was posted by an anonymous career woman who received this e-mail from her husband while traveling on a 10-day business trip.  He basically said this is why I won’t miss you over the next 10 days.

Now, there has been a lot of observations made over the manosphere and various other outlets.  Comments ranging from full support of the wife’s disobedience to full support of the husband’s plight.

I’d like to make a couple of observations of my own regarding this:

  • In our current society, women are the gatekeepers of sex.  It should not be this way, especially when she pledges her life to a man in a sacred ceremony until death (or unhappiness) do them part.  The whole idea of marriage is that a couple engage in a monogamous relationship where consent is implied and sex is a regular activity.  The whole point of marriage for a man is to have regular sex with one person they find attractive.  Without regular sex, you become a roommate who shares a bed.
  • The spreadsheet was nearly two months in the making.  This indicates careful forethought and frustration in the months before it was started.  This means that she has been doing this to her husband for the majority of their marriage.  Not a good sign for their marriage.
  • If the intention of the spreadsheet was to shame her into having more sex, it will not work that way.  While it will put her on the defensive, she will only rationalize it into his problem, not hers.  That is generally what women do when it comes to sex: they rationalize their lack of fidelity into the man’s fault.  Despite that, the husband should not accept any kind of blame from her.  None of this is his fault exactly.
  • Given the nature of the comments she made, it is quite clear that the wife is not physically attracted to her husband anymore.  I don’t know why this is, but that is the case.  Now, there are things he can do to make himself more attractive to her, but most of these things take time (going to the gym, cutting carbs, etc.) to have an effect.  The most immediate thing he can do is to change his attitude about how he relates to her.  Think back to what you did when you first started dating her.  That needs to apply here.
  • The wife is probably cheating on her husband on a regular basis.  The lack of sex is not the only reason why either.  She is working at a job where she goes on business trips that last for days.  She probably makes more money that her husband as well.  All of these things are a recipe for disgust and she will look for better opportunities in her sex life.  This is why I don’t believe that most wives should be allowed to have a career in my opinion because it brings about temptation to look for something better than their current husband.

I know that neither the anonymous wife or husband will probably ever read this blog post, given the number of blog posts already done for this spreadsheet along with the various online articles from much more popular sites.  But this is a problem for many men in their marriages and it is an unfortunate state of affairs today.  In marriage 2.0, the wife is the one who calls the shots and only a sufficiently Alpha personality type can successfully change the dynamic.

I don’t recommend making a spreadsheet.  I recommend doing what you would do if you were single: get in shape, lose weight, start studying how to make your personality more attractive to women, etc.  This may not work to attract your own wife and if that is the case, you’ll at least be equipped for if she decides to end things.  If you are married and do not have children and you find yourself in this situation, then you need to ensure that you don’t have children in the event of the divorce.

And if you end up divorcing, fight her every step of the way, especially if she makes more than you.  Fight for alimony from her, make her life a living hell, and flip the tables on her by living well while you are separated.  Ex-wives hate it when their ex-husbands show up to the hearings with a smile on their face and scowl on his lawyer’s face.

I do hope that this couple does not separate or divorce.  This young woman is wasting her prime sexual years by not indulging her husband whose own libido will diminish over time as well.  She is in her mid-20s, apparently, and it is downhill from there in terms of looks and attractiveness.  Marriage has shown to provide a reliable sexual partner who remains attracted to his or her spouse even as said spouse’s looks deteriorate due to age.  My advice is, as always, to stay married.  But I would understand if they end up divorcing.

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Illegal Aliens Are Negligent Parents

It is high time I weigh in on the current immigration issue.  Currently, there are thousands of illegal aliens pouring over the border and being funneled into concentration camps set up by the Federal government.  The sad thing is, many of these illegal aliens are children.  Children who are abandoned by their parents and told to go to America.

I cannot help but think that this deliberate on the part of the Obama administration in order to push through amnesty.  He has said he would pass through amnesty by executive decision in the past, so it is not out of the realm of possibility that he would use children for political ends.

So we have an administration whose standing orders are to let everyone in and extort the American people out of money in order to secure the border.  From where I stand, we have enough troops and military equipment that can close the border in less than a month.  No extra funding is needed, just ground troops.  Hell, they could even get back all those military vehicles that they’ve sold to local police squads.

On the other, I’ve noticed that nobody significant has pointed out the obvious: that these are children of negligent parents.

The Hispanic invaders on our southern borders are children whose parents have abandoned them.  To put this in perspective for those of you who think that not letting brown people in is racist, this is the equivalent of white trailer trash abandoning their kids on the border and telling them to go to Mexico.

In fact, maybe we should exchange undesirables.  At least the trash south of the border doesn’t speak terrible English.

The point is, the Hispanic leaders of Central and South America are dumping their undesirables off on the US border and then collecting taxes on the money that is wired back to their negligent parents.  That’s the scam.

I know that there are many people who feel sorry for children.  It isn’t their fault that their parents abandoned them and I agree with that assessment.

So I propose a solution: we help those kids, send them back south of the border and we charge Mexico and all the other Central American countries for our trouble.

Of course, that’s not going to happen.  Instead we’re going to continue to transplant these abandoned children into concentration camps and turn them into Hitler youth.

Monday, July 14, 2014

The Politics of Jesus

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a post in response to an article from a theologian who was criticizing capitalism and libertarianism for being unchristian.  Well, he said that it wasn’t “compatible” with Christianity.  But it was basically the same thing.

What annoys me about it is that most people with certain political affinities are always going to try and claim the cross as central to their ideology and all others are, effectively, going to Hell.  This kind of limited thinking is destructive to Christians and only creates strife among the believers.

I made a point about how libertarianism’s “Non-Aggression Principle” is basically the second greatest commandment as taught by first Moses and reinforced by Jesus.  This was not meant to illustrate that libertarianism is what Jesus taught.  For one thing, I am not a libertarian, I am a political nihilist.  And another point is that I believe that if everyone was a true believing Christian, then any political ideology would work out fine.

The latter point is really key.  If men were angels, after all, then we would not need government really.  It can be argued that we do not need government anyway, but that’s not the point here.  The point is that while many people claim to be Christian (in the USA, it’s 82%), many refuse to follow the teachings of Jesus, other than the parts they like.

So we are stuck with people who believe that their political ideology is the one that Jesus would follow.  This is more prevalent and explicit on the Left with many of their ilk claiming things like “Jesus was a liberal” and that Jesus charged use to help the poor.  And while this is true, it is also true that the Left are the least charitable bunch you’ll ever meet.

Conservatives are bad about this as well, but they are more subtle about it.  From implying that the Left are immoral, which they are, to outright calling them Godless, which again, many are, the Right tends to take the opposite approach and paint their rivals as anti-God.  And while they are correct, most of the time, they are also doing so not to convert people to Christianity, but to convert people to conservatism.

The point is, Jesus was largely apolitical because He was the Son of God.  Who the Hell cares about politics when the world is yours by right of inheritance?  To top it off, He has the power and authority to rule, so any human construct designed to govern us is immaterial to Him.

Do keep that in mind when confronted with a moron declares the compatibility of Christianity with whatever political ideology they are extolling or criticizing.  Because while some ideologies do openly reject Christianity, God doesn’t seem to care all that much about the ones that do not.

Friday, July 11, 2014

Terminal America

America is dying.  It is a terminal illness and there is no cure at this point.  In fact, there is little that can be done at this point, short of some madmen following the “Golden Path”, which might not work even then.

I wish people would do the things that need to be done to fix it.  But modern man will not give up the welfare state, reform the banking system, stop going to college, stop the foreign invasions called “immigration”, end women’s suffrage, etc..

I know, there is a long list of things that are destroying civilization.  The problem is, you cannot stop most of them in time.  But even more important, there isn’t enough willpower to do what must be done.  Sometimes, leaders must be cruel in order to bring about positive change.

In a few centuries, historians will probably look back at all the blogs, the tweets, and the other assorted social media posts and try and correlate what happened.  I’m sure celebrities will be outlawed first and foremost.

The trouble is, most people who use social media aren’t smart people.  Most people are idiots after all.  Not you of course.  You’re a special snowflake.

The fact is, there is not much to be done.  Men don’t want to marry because women are sluts and make themselves undesirable as a marriage prospect.  This leaves men to behave like children and work very little in order to support themselves and their habits.

On top of that, the church wrings its hands over social issues but fails to properly address the economic issues.  Instead, Christians just call the free market “greedy” negating any alternatives besides communism, which hates Christianity.

The people in government are corrupt from top to bottom.  I’m sure there are some good people who truly believe they are helping people.  They are worse.

Our soldiers are placed overseas rather than at our borders.  Even conservatives argue placing soldiers on the border is unconstitutional now, forgetting that constitution is only followed when elected officials actually believe in it.

Men are committing suicide as their ex-wives demand more and more money from them for the sin of marrying these bitches and having children with them.  And society just shakes its head at them and says they were deadbeats anyway.

Meanwhile, our political leaders are welcoming in non-citizens who are the equivalent of white trash because they happen to be brown.

And nearly every military incursion overseas is a failure.  Hell, I’m not even sure if Osama Bin Laden was really killed when the government says he was.

Economic data is fudged to make things seem better than they are.  The CPI excludes food, fuel, housing, and so many other things.  Real price inflation is probably at around 9% right now.

Young people cannot buy a home without getting scammed.  In order to buy a home properly, you need at least 60K saved up.  Considering the average American salary isn’t more than 50K, that’s a lot of saving.

The point is, it will all start noticeably crashing soon.  But the crash has already started.  The collapse wouldn’t happen overnight because America is too big to collapse overnight.

I’m sorry, that is just the way it is.