I was listening to a podcast from Bechtloff yesterday and he talked about something that I found extraordinary. He discussed how the church does not properly deal with single motherhood and how he sees a greater problem with bastard children being raised by a mom than gays adopting.
This is a great example of the American church, that is the community of Christian believers in the United States of America, embracing single motherhood as a virtue rather than confronting it as a vice. We have pastors across the nation teaching that women tame men. That men need to “man-up” and marry these women no matter how damaged they are or used up they are.
That is the socio-sexual strategy of modern women, or at least the one that is encouraged by the elite and embraced by the church. Have as much fun (i.e.. sex) as you can while you are in your 20s and then find a decent man to marry when you are older, less attractive, and possibly have a baby or two you need to take care of.
That’s a raw deal for any man if you ask me. I know that the median partner count for women upon getting married is around four, but that is something that goes against nature. Men naturally want to marry inexperienced women. There’s no shame in that. They naturally will pump and dump sluts.
This is a natural part of the male instinct to procreate. I’m not saying that men should go and out and pump and dump as much as possible, but I am saying that we are better able to emotionally connect with a woman who has had no previous partners. Especially younger men who are more likely to get married in the first place.
But these days women, at the behest of feminists, have declared that what was once considered normal is now considered to be oppressive and patriarchal. Feminists themselves are a hate-filled lot who lack a sense of humor and have allowed envy to rule over their thought processes. As such, they seek to destroy any expression of masculinity they can where ever they can because it is something they cannot do naturally.
Every boys club, every predominantly male activity must be infiltrated for the sake of the feminine, never mind that they destroy the feminine in the process. This also applies to socio-sexual relations.
So we have an upside-down system of dating and marriage where men are given all the responsibilities but none of the benefits while women are given the benefits while avoiding the consequences. If you want a real-world example of this (and didn’t bother to follow the link I provided above), look no further than reproductive rights.
Women have nearly every form of contraception available to them. Besides condoms (which every single man must use during every sexual encounter, regardless of what she says she does), men have no real alternative. Women have pills, meshes, and just about everything else you can think of to allow them to avoid pregnancy.
Yet single motherhood is on the rise. Well, at least it has skyrocketed in the past several decades. These days it is considered perfectly normal when in the past it was something to be ashamed of.
And churches are all too willing to clump such women into the same category as widows when widowhood is a condition that women cannot control where as single motherhood is something that can be controlled. So the church has willingly embraced irresponsibility in order to curry favor with their largest group of donors (women attend more church than men).
Nationwide, the American church is for sale. Their moral compass skews in favor of those who provide the most donations. Any pastor willing to stand up against sluts and single mothers will find himself attacked by Team Women for oppressing them. The wagons will circle and that pastor will either have to apologize or face excommunication from his own congregations.
And all for the simple crime of pointing out what the Bible says with regards to sexual immorality.
Is it any wonder why I’d rather not become a pastor?